Change is not a process for the impatient. – Barbara Reinhold, Director Career Development Office, Smith
College, Northhampton, Mass
Not entirely sure where I got this quote but that’s how I have it attributed. And she’s right. No good change is immediate. In movies, protagonists realize what they have to do or what they have to change about themselves and BAM it’s done and they’ve got the girl. But things are the way they are for a reason and the reason is often something along the lines of “it would be hard to do it another way.” So if you seek change, understand that it will be frustrating.